Friday, January 30, 2009

January's Miracle: +1

The first in a series of miraculous events I will chronicle throughout 2009 to highlight the positive occurrences that have taken place in my life.

On a cold January morning, I received the call. I had been awaiting it for five days, yet somehow it caught me unawares. I heard my mother's voice on the other end of the line, "He is here". Even though I had known for several months that he would be arriving and despite the fact that I wasn't there to witness his grand entrance, her announcement brought tears to my eyes. My family is now +1. In January, our little miracle arrived in the form of my sister's first child, a bouncing baby boy.

My sister and I were born 22 months apart. It has always been very important to me to point out that she isn't quite two years older than I am. 'One year and ten months' I used to scream whenever she or anyone else tried to pull the seniority card. Being that close in age has positive and negative aspects, but the one thing that remains true good or bad is that we take life's turns at roughly the same time. Heading off to school, becoming a teenager, first kiss, first boyfriend - these things have all happened in such a way that I felt more than able to relate. What I am trying to say, and evidently not doing a very good job of, is that I can relate to most things that have happened in her life. The first major step she took that I have yet to was marriage, but somehow that didn't feel alien. Having been in love, I could obviously relate. Not to the actual act itself, but to the idea that it is possible to want to spend the rest of your life with one person.

With this most recent jump however, she is beyond my reach. She carried an entire other person for 9 months and pushed him out into the world. I cannot even begin to fathom the awe she must have felt when he was handed to her. To see herself, my brother-in-law and so many earlier generations of our family all mixed together in the features of one tiny infant is nothing short of astonishing. I have only been able to see him via the harsh medium of mega-pixels, yet somehow I feel the tug on my heart. I had no hand in creating this child, that was between my sister, her husband and God. Yet somehow I feel as though a piece of him belongs to me. I look at a picture of him and I feel as though we are communicating. Silent secrets that only he and I know or understand. My nephew. I am in love and I haven't even met him yet.



Blogger Becca said...

Congratulations! Wow, must be amazing. When do you get to meet him?

9:57 AM  
Blogger Monef said...

Thanks!! I am hoping to pop over in March, so I will finally get to see him. How are you? Haven't been able to congratulate you yet either, when is the big day?!

10:53 AM  
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Blogger Moody Crab said...

Wow! Congrats! I can sort of imagine the love you feel, only mine was taken away far too quickly. I wish him long life.

1:53 AM  
Blogger Monef said...

Thanks! I just read your post on your baby brother and was so touched, it brought me to tears. I can't even begin to imagine what that loss feels like.

11:16 AM  
Blogger AlooFar said...

This should be one of the best sentences I've come across on blogville...

"To see herself, my brother-in-law and so many earlier generations of our family all mixed together in the features of one tiny infant is nothing short of astonishing."

How did you couch all that in a single sentence?

Damn, I don't envy your style at all!

... congrats.

I'm in awe. Seriously.

1:40 PM  
Blogger Monef said...


*blushes furiously*

4:55 PM  

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